Xennials and travel: Travellers who were born between 1977 and 1983 probably did this

Xennials are a weird generation – too young to be pessimistic Gen-Xers, but too old to be flaky Millennials. We're not the social media generation, but we know how to use it. Some of us got in before the property market boomed – some of us did not.

We're an in-between generation, made up of those born between 1977 and 1983. The word sounds silly – Xennial – like a buzzword made up by some marketing people, but it feels real. Xennials don't really identify as being part of the previous generation of the next. We're distinct.

We're also distinct as travellers. If you grew up in the '80s and '90s, if you know who Yahoo Serious is and you remember taping songs from the radio, then there's every chance you'll also display the following travel quirks …

You set up a Hotmail account to email rellies from the road

Long ago, way back in the late '90s, you would have had to set up a fancy new email account so you could go hang out in internet cafés overseas and message your parents to let them know you were OK. They would probably check their email account a few days later and then you'd get a response in a week or so. That account was invariably a Hotmail account, and you might even still have it.

You have a bookcase full of Lonely Planet guides

Back before you could google any detail about any destination you've ever wanted to know, we all bought physical copies of Lonely Planet guidebooks, which were in their heyday around the '90s and 2000s. Plenty of Xennial travellers have never been able to part with their "bibles".

You've been on a Contiki or TopDeck tour of Western Europe

Back when Xennials were doing gap years, you got your working visa for the UK, you went over there with dreams of skipping over to mainland Europe most weekends, and then you got to the end of your two-year stint and realised you'd barely even left Clapham. So you jumped on a Contiki or TopDeck tour to "do" Europe before heading home.

You had a Eurail pass

Before all the budget airlines came along, before you could fly from Berlin to Barcelona for about 30 euros, this was the most affordable way to see Europe. You'd get yourself a two- or three-month Eurail pass and just buzz around the continent, hopping from city to city, staying in dirty hostels and travelling by train.

You've been to a Full Moon Party


Photo: Alamy

Xennials were blessed – we got in while Full Moon Parties in Thailand existed, but they weren't that well known. It wasn't overcrowded or too touristy. It was just fun. We'd all arrive on Koh Pha-Ngan clutching our battered copies of The Beach, and hang out with a few hundred partygoers trying to live the dream.


You remember when Prague was exotic


Photo: Alamy

Prague was the first Eastern European city to become popular, this city that seemed so exotic and adventurous. At that point no one had been to Budapest. No one even considered going to Croatia (which until recently had been Yugoslavia). If you wanted to be different and escape the crowds, you went to Prague.

You've been tubing


Photo: Alamy

In a similar vein to the Full Moon Parties in Thailand, many Xennials were probably travelling in South-East Asia when tubing in Laos was a thing, when it hadn't yet been overrun with mushroom milkshake stands and dodgy cops, when there seemed something innocent about floating down a beautiful river on an inner tube, drinking $1 tins of Beerlao and having the time of your life.

You take selfies – but you suck at them

Xennials didn't grow up with smartphones, or social media, but we adapted to them in our 20s, we got Facebook and Instagram and figured out how best to use them. Most of us take selfies now, though not with nearly the dedication – or skill – that Millennials demonstrate. We take selfies, and we look ridiculous.

You sent big long group emails home

If you're an Xennial traveller you can probably remember a time when you would send huge long group emails to all of your family and friends (from your Hotmail account), telling them about all of your overseas adventures. Now, of course, people just have blogs. Or the Snapchats. Or whatever.

You've seen Before Sunrise… 10 times

This was the quintessential travellers' movie, released in 1995, the tale of an American backpacker (Ethan Hawke) who spends one glorious night of intelligent conversation and dreamy gazing with a French woman (Julie Delpy) he meets on a train to Vienna. Anyone with their own fantasies of European travel and romance would have watched it several times.

You've travelled with a Discman

They seem ridiculously unwieldy now, and yet we all travelled with Discmen (Discmans?), and, obviously, with large books of CDs that definitely included something by Pearl Jam or Silverchair.

You've made calls using an overseas phone card

Before everyone had a smartphone, or reliable internet to send emails, you had to communicate home by buying a phone card from a newsagent and then getting a degree in astrophysics to figure out how to make the thing work. Is that the PIN, or the number you call…?

Your strongest memory of any Western European city is the bar you went to

Aquatic Bar, Pag Island, Croatia.

Aquatic Bar, Pag Island, Croatia. Photo: Alamy

What's Florence like? Well, there's this bar there called the Red Garter that all the backpackers go to and the Italian guys turn up to hit on all the girls… And in Nice there's this place called Wayne's…

You remember organising to meet someone (and having to turn up)

Back in the day, if you organised to meet someone at a certain spot at a certain time on a certain day, then you had to be there. No changes of plan. If you didn't show up, you'd probably never see or hear from that person ever again.

Your current holiday plans involve cheap, reliable childcare

Most Xennials, these days, can remember a time when they were footloose and fancy free, backpacking around Europe and South-East Asia getting drunk and being silly. Now, Fiji seems a good option – the childcare there is great.

Are you an Xennial traveller? Do you recognise any of these signs? What marks out the other generations of travellers?

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